the situation with respect is pretty simple here
What would you love more: a tiny cute kitten who desperately needs your love and help to survive or a big strong cat with sharp claws and teeth who tan shred anyone into pieces
You do not respect kitten but you love him
while you respect the cat but don't love him you always have to think about your actions with that cat because if he dislikes you there will be blood.
>I'm a horny man and I don't do bad things. I'm neither cucked nor weak, and yet I get along with women fine either as a friend or lover or longterm partner. Have some personal responsibility. Hate your own moral weakness, not women.
well, you are speaking like a cuck and future MGTOW because you are taking it from the perspective of responsibility. all your post is about responsibility including women as well. I wonder what you will be talking about when someone will wipe his/her ass with your face.
I reject the entire idea of responsibility and morality.
If you know me for that long you should have noticed that I have no morality at all, and my only responsibility is to make myself happy.
the reason why I care about other people and want to make them feel good is that this makes me feel good too not because I am required by some morality or responsibility.
How I feel is the ultimate judge for what is right and wrong and I suggest everyone do the same. Always put yourself in the center of the universe. a person who does not love himself cannot really love anyone either. If you love yourself you will automatically love everyone. Morality and responsibility bring nothing but suffering to everyone.
When looking for friends this is also primary criteria which I evaluate as to how much that person loves himself/herself.
>A woman is sitting alone in a cafe reading a book. A man sits down at her table and says "Come home with me and fuck me." She says "No. Also, I am an adult, address me with respect like you would expect others to address you." The man, who is called Onix, says "How dare you! I am horny! This is your fault! Come fuck me!" She responds "You would enjoy fucking me, but I would enjoy being an autonomous human being and not fucking you. I would enjoy staying here and reading this book." Onix says "What I want is more important than what you want!" (Oh shit, does he really say that? Yes! Yes he literally does. He thinks women are inferior to him, which means his wants supersede theirs! Damn, Onix.)
This is totally not my style I would never do this and I always point out to other guys who wast to do this how stupid it looks like.
(although approaching a woman with the statement "Come home with me and fuck me." is not a that bad idea, which can give you quite a good success)
If I say to a woman "I am horny I want to fuck you"
her response should be "but I am not horny and don't want to fuck you"
If I continue "Then I will just rape you"
she can say "just try it and I will bite off your balls"
I come and say "look I am horny my dick is going to burst so I am sticking it in you."
she can response "and my pussy it is completely dry, make it wet and then you can stick it in"
very likely after pretty long conversation sex will eventually happen because she will change her mind.
the main thing that matters is not whether she allows me to fuck her but whether she allows me to change her mind about me.
and see there is no sign of anyone blaming anyone or making demands we just discuss what we want from the perspective that we do not owe each other anything.
if she just looks at me and says "fuck off you stupid creep" then I will hate her not for not fucking me but for being rude with me.
depending on the situation I will either just walk away with the hope that some serial killer will cut her body in pieces. or If there is no danger I rather abduct her and torture her in my basement, but I will not even try to rape her because I value my dick too much to put in a piece of shit like that. it will not even get hard.
in that case, I rather bring some ugly diseased homeless nigers to fuck her and just watch it myself.
As a nice person, you must give a chance for everyone just to interact with them and if it does not work then it's all fine. nobody owes anything to anyone.
but if you want to be treated nicely by others you have to threaten them nicely too. this is the basic principle.
just follow the golden rule
A more common situation which people who rely on responsibilities face is when you take a woman on a date buy her drinks give her gifts entertain her and in the end when you already expect sex she says "thanks! that was nice I am going home"
and you the start complaining like a real MGTOW as "What? I invested 200$ on you today I deserve at least a blowjob you ungrateful cunt"
If the same happens to me, my complaints will be "are you retarded, I think you knew that when I was doing all those things to you I did it because I thought you liked me. If you did not, you should have said so immediately instead of wasting my time and money"
although she could respond "Sorry, I thought you are usual cuck who loves serving women and being walked over." or maybe "I like you but you failed to arouse me"
If I have the luxury of not respecting her at all, I will not even ask her anything just jump on her pin her down and start cuddling and ticking her until she gets wet. if I see that she is too stressed about that and do not enjoy it at all I will let her go because I don't want to hurt her and feel quite bad about wahst I did, try to apologize. on the other hand, if I see that she is enjoying it I will rape her even if she complains.(Maybe she is married and doesn't want to cheat or she believes that no sex before marriage, in that case, the fact that I rape her offload her from that responsibility she can say to her husband "oh dear I was raped am totally innocent" and I even confirm that "yes she fought back like a tiger but she was no match for me hahaha" in that case everyone is happy she felt good and also for staying loyal to her man. impotent cuck husband is proud of having a loyal wife and has sex with her first time in the last 5 years (because imagining her being raped makes his dick hard) and I am happy because everyone is happy
Probably a week later she will come to the same spot in a hope that it will happen again
And I actually want to be treated exactly the same, with no respect but with love.
this is when you do not listen to what someone says but care about how they feel.