Hello, I feel this is the right place and group of people to share with (ridiculously involved lurker here). I'm a sexologist (recent grad), and I specialize in fetishes and unusual 'philias' including guro and rape fantasy. It helps that those are my OWN turn-ons and I've been lucky enough to meet some brave and/or equally sadistic partners to fulfill these, BUT, I'd like to quid pro quo some of the advice I'd like to give to those with unusual fetishes, in exchange for my help.8 posts omitted. [View All]
If anyone's willing to toss their hat in the ring, here's the circumstance: my new lover (man) is really interested in impregnation fantasy, and my expertise falls pretty short here. Any suggestions? I.E., if YOU have (or did have) an impreg fetish, what kinds of things would you like an IRL young female to do to you/with you/for you? As a starting point I think dirty talk about how much I want his cum and to have his babies, that seems to work.
In exchange for any opinions, personal stories/fantasies or tips, here's some things I regularly work with people on (not to 'FIX' my clients, but often to help them integrate their fetishes with everyday life in a healthy and safe way, and find others who share their interests) and love discussing or giving advice for: rape/non-consensual fantasy, incest role play, other uniformed/'scene' roleplay (i.e. doctors and nurses, historical, fictional characters, etc), ageplay, asphyx, guro and straight violence/gore, torture and extreme BDSM.
...Oh, and if you're feeling *terribly* generous, now that I've waited a while and finally found a man who seems genuinely interested in raping me (obligatory it's-only-roleplay-and-real-rape-is-different disclaimer here), has anybody pulled a hard stunt like that before? It's impractical, but I'd love to be suddenly accosted in, say, a parking garage or a locker room, and not (initially) know it was him.
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I guess as far as fantaay goes, that makes sense for a woman having a desire to not hold responsiblity.
Hummm, maybe you can Play on both kinks at the same time. It seems like a good combination.
For the impregnation kink I think you're right about the power-play side. My gf loved to be handled like if she did not have a choice from time to time. She also enjoyed some breath-play. Of course she knew I would not choke her, but the feeling of air restriction and of being "powerless" would still excite her a lot.
As such, a good idea might be to pretend having forgotten your pills, and that you will not fuck him unless forced to. Of course with him knowing in advance that you might do that kind of pretend at some point and a code to let him know if this is for real and not some kind of play. Then it's up to him to choose when and where to hit you (probably without a condom for his fantasy to work, so be sure to have actually taken you pills ...), within the rules agreed upon, and up to you to pretend that you're not willing, that it's not safe and that you might get pregnant !
Maybe sharing your position with him on google maps so that he can track you might help. Also "inadvertently" sharing your planning in advance with him and planning a lot of places to be/activities/routes that would give him opportunities seems like a good ides.
Also, I'm curious, how do you meet somebody with such kinks in real life. This isn't something you're usually open about. At least I know I'm not about to share such interests with anyone unless I know for a fact they will accept that.
A large part of rape is a tribal warfare thing. You not only kill/castrate the male lineage, you impregnate their women.
Hello. Let's see if what I have to offer is what you want.
Before we were married (married now five years) we role played rape because my wife asked it of me. I enjoyed it and after a few times for her birthday I asked if she wanted to include a guest star to rape her. Someone from her past I knew she was attracted to but she'd never gone out with. She said yes so I got to watch and this caused us to have a conversation about what turned us each on about it. Very different interests and IMO sort of interesting.
The other thing which would feel your more clinical side are notes taken from a counseling session where a woman described a rape where she had a sexual response during her rape and what caused this and how she was taunted about it happening to her.
Do either of these things fit into your interest?
Law & Order SVU had a show about girl, who had never been able to climax via sex with her fiance, repeated climaxed while being gang raped by a bunch of thugs.